ONE THING YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND:
IF IT IS REAL LOVE, IT WILL BE RELEASING.
THAT WILL BE A VERY CLEAR INDICATION.
Whenever you feel depressed, for the time being your love has dried up. If
you are fighting with someone, at that time you will find that you are not
thinking of Love at all. When you have any tension, heaviness, selfishness,
greed, or quarreling, you will see that Love was missing at that moment.
Bring in love and all these things evaporate. And this love also satisfies
your urge to love or to be loved. It is fulfilled automatically. Love is its
own satisfaction. If I love you, it satisfies me also. It is not an extra
ingredient we acquire on the human level. Your Love is inborn. It is your
nature. It is not only part and parcel, it is you in such a way that you do
not even see that you have it. |
You do not see it that way
because in that original Love, though you were fully satisfied, somehow you
thought to create further, which means to degrade further. And once you
started this degrading to expressions of love and affection, emotions and
relationships, you also started the opposing factor: tensions, hatred,
anger, revenge. All these are antonyms of Love, just as death is the
opposite of life. If you were settled and residing in that Love, life and
death would not seem different at all. Death would be a very natural
transition. When you reside back into that Love, all your depression,
tensions or worries will evaporate in no time. The Prophets, Sages and
Realized Souls have this safety valve. Whenever tensions build up, any
heaviness or working on the karmas of people, they reside back into loving
all and are released right away. Edited from a Satsang entitled Love of Creator and Creation, given on December 24, 1998, during The Perfection of Love Retreat, with brief additional material from an unpublished Satsang. |